People Who Need People

I came across an insightful quote called “Paradoxical Commandments of Leadership.” Here’s what it says:

People are illogical, unreasonable and self-centered – love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives – do good anyway.
If you’re successful, you’ll win false friends and true enemies – succeed anyway.
The good you do today will perhaps be forgotten tomorrow – do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable – be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest man with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest man with the smallest mind – think big anyway.
People favor underdogs but follow only hot dogs – fight for a few underdogs anyway.
What you spend years building up may be destroyed overnight – build anyway.
People really need help but may attack you if you help them – help them anyway.
Give the world the best that you have and you will get kicked in the teeth – give the world the best that you have anyway.
If better is possible, then good is not enough.

Food for thought :-)

“Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good. Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another; Not slothful in business; fervent in spirit; serving the Lord;”
Romans 12:9-11

“People” (Click to listen to song)

The Miraculous Process of Life

 

 

 

My Little Miracle!

Lola - My Little Miracle!

 

As we transition from the long, warm days of summer to the shorter, cooler days of fall, we begin to notice the subtle changes in the season not only in the temperature, but in the natural environment around us.  Birds are busy migrating to warmer parts of the south as they prepare for another winter season.  We are fortunate to reside here in Florida, privileged to observe many of these migrant visitors for the short period of time they grace us with their presence in our little corner of the world.  Our dogs start to once again cultivate their winter coats, their bodies designed with this automatic mechanism in place to protect them from the elements.  Leaves begin to change color and fall from the trees.  A period of dormancy begins as another annual cycle of life comes full circle.  We tend to think of miracles as individual events, something that stands out as unusual or unexplainable – an immense gift of single purpose.  But isn’t life itself an ongoing miracle?  I often sit in my garden and look all around me – from up in the sky back down to the earth – with a distinct focus on the “small stuff”.   It all comes together to form a big picture, but it is the sum of all parts that captivates me.  To think about everything in the world that is going on at any given moment in time.  It’s not an easy thing to do!  To look down at the ground and see a small trail of seemingly insignificant ants, marching along, busy with their natural process.  Where are they going?  What is their purpose?  How do they know what to do?  How many ants are there in the world, all following this similar pattern?   I notice how many pine needles have fallen on my patio since I just swept them yesterday.  I look up at the tree and think, how many pine trees are there?  How many total pine needles fall everywhere every day? I look around my garden, only a small area, yet I have lots of plants, trees, bushes and other living things.  Within them are hundreds of bugs and other wildlife, some can be seen but most are unseen, all with various important roles in nature.  Multiply these by the number of yards in each neighborhood; the number of neighborhoods in each town, the number of towns in each state, country, etc. etc.  Millions…billions…even trillions of things going on every second in every corner of the world.  Mind-boggling to say the least!  Who can manage this vast array of activities to such a level of flawless execution?  To the point that we hardly even notice what goes on around us!  Who made up this blueprint and designed every living thing with a purpose on earth?  Who takes care of all these things, making sure that the next cycle of life begins again each and every spring?  Who feeds, waters, and constantly nurtures all living things to grow and prosper?  We know the answer of course…  Thank you God for all these gifts and for this beautiful earth you have provided to sustain us; a place to live in peace and harmony, and for us to enjoy all things bright and beautiful, all creatures great and small, all things wise and wonderful, because dear God, you miraculously and purposely made them all …. for us!

Each little flower that opens, each little bird that sings.  God made their glowing colors, and made their tiny wings.  The purple-headed mountains, the river running by.  The sunset and the morning that brightens up the sky. The cold wind in the winter,  the pleasant summer sun, the ripe fruits in the garden, God made them, every one!  God gave us eyes to see them, and lips that we might tell.  How great is God Almighty, who has made all things well!

Got Milk?  Hallelujah :-)

Backyard Birds

When I moved from Jacksonville to Fernandina last July, I knew I had finally found “my place”.  To say that I love living on Amelia Island is an understatement.  The first time I walked through the front door of the house in “Nature’s Walk”, I knew that it would become my home.  As I made the left turn into the neighborhood, the first thing that struck me was the abundance of trees.  They grew tall and green over the road providing a shady avenue.  It was late June and the tropical lushness of Florida was on full display.  Flowers and bushes bursting with summer blooms and colors.  A beautiful dark pink bougainvillea dominated the front lawn of my new home.  The sun was shining brightly in the clear blue sky and the birds all around were chirping away merrily.  After being confined in a beautiful, but very restrictive condominium for the last few years, I had yearned for a small garden where I could attract the neighborhood birds to my bird feeders.  A dear friend had introduced me to the joy of bird watching the prior year.  Several nature walks later, I was able to recognize a few of the common garden birds.  Black Capped Chickadees, Carolina Wrens, Tufted Titmice, Cardinals and Mourning Doves soon became my daily visitors.  Over the summer, I have taken delight in watching a Ruby Throated Hummingbird nuzzle up to my hibiscus trees.  While I have lived with birds all around me for my entire life, the new hobby of actual “bird watching” has become a personal joy for me.  I can now sit and watch them for extended periods of time, becoming more familiar with their daily schedules and observing the bird “hierarchy” as they wait turns to be on the feeders – or get pushed off for a minute by a “higher up”.  I now realize why people enjoy it so much.  The simple routines of our feathered friends providing living examples of the peacefulness, harmony and joy that exist in our natural world.  They do not worry about tomorrow, nor fret about yesterday.  They are only concerned with the current day and getting their “daily bread”.  No stress or anxiety.  No jealousy or hate.  What can we learn from these simple creatures?  A lot I think :-)

Hummingbirds

The wonder and awe of creation. This will stir your heart…. I hope :-)

Amazing video and beautiful to watch. Mother Nature at her finest!

<a href=”http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gG59PaCiiDg”>Hummingbird Video

View in full screen and close the box at the bottom showing the music/artist so you can see numbers on the days….

Oh, and remember, each egg starts out the size of a coffee bean!

Royal Peacocks

After a recent visit to the early morning service at St. George’s, my friend Jayne and I decided to follow Peggy to the Ribault Club for the yoga class.  We were all in different cars, with Peggy leading the way and me following at the rear.  A little way after making the left turn towards Ribault, I slowed down for something obstructing the path ahead.  As I came closer, I noticed that it was two peacocks, strutting along aimlessly, not really paying much attention to me or my slowly moving vehicle.  I got the distinct impression – or innuendo – from the pair that it would be me who was to wait patiently for them to get where they wanted to go – not the other way around!  So I came to a full stop in the car and just watched them quietly as they made their way along the edge of the road.  It occurred to me that they were like a royal couple, not only because of their beautiful plumage, so regal in color, with the purples, azure blue and gold feathers patterned like crown jewels.  Their stately walk, with the beautiful feather robes gently bobbing behind them reminded me of the way Kings and Queens parade along a red carpet at an official ceremony.  As a native of London, England, I have witnessed many such stately occasions.  The slight nod of the crowned royal head acknowledging their subjects along each side of the aisle.  The peacocks similarly nodded with a sort of sideways glance, their beaks distinctly pointed upwards before and after the obligatory nod.  I could just imagine them whispering to each other – without breaking stride or form – to quietly bemoan yet another “peasant” intrusion in their early morning stroll through their royal estate.  “Philip,” says Queen Elizabeth to her husband.  “We simply must do something about these commoners free roaming around on our estate”.  “Yes” says Philip.  “Absolutely right, my dear”.  With that, I was once again on my way to yoga, albeit a few minutes behind everyone else.  So say hello to Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip next time you see them around the island.  A few other “Royals” may be there as well.  :-)

Costumes, Carnivals, and Candy

Fall is a very reflective time signaling that the year is nearing its end and causing us to inventory what we have accomplished as well as what is yet to come; but even more than a calendar reminder, the season is one of spiritual renewal. Just as the cool breezes stir the leaves on the trees and send them gliding through the air, that same stirring spurs our minds to reminisce and puts a little lift and sway to our gait. Yes, for us elders, it is a wonderful time of rejuvenation and inspiration—reviewing the past and anticipating the future—while our children grab hold of the present and all thoughts and desires turn to costume parades, carnival games, and enough candied treats to send their stomachs rolling for a week. I hope we all catch some of their infectious spirit and take time to celebrate in the present and not merely be content in our memories. May this Fall be not only reflective but active.GE costumes

Naturally Speaking

September 6, 2009: I’m so excited! Today is the first day of a completely new experience for me – blog writing! Thanks to Kate for the invitation and her amazing sense of spiritual discernment. To somehow know that this would be something I’d like to do and in her usual genuine loving way to encourage me to do it. In our brief discussion about the new website and her vision to have a little something for everyone – we agreed that I could be a nature blogger, a source of so much personal joy for me! Although certainly not an expert by any stretch of the imagination, just a simple observer, mine will be a free flowing account of personal experience. It seems almost ironic that it was early this morning that I sat and listened to another of Father Marty’s beautiful teachings – about our five senses, and that my day would then unfold so full of sensory experiences. Are we lucky or what? Some would say that life just will never be perfect – after all, we are only on Earth, not yet in Heaven. But I’m not so sure. Life on Earth is as perfect as we choose to make it at any given time. And thank you God for these beautiful senses we have been blessed with. Do you sometimes think that everything happens for a reason, at just the right time and place as it was meant to? I get this feeling quite often whenever things just seem to fall in to place just right. It is mostly when I let go of any plans I might have, and let “someone else” have a chance at guiding my plan. I think Jeremiah made a similar discovery in his bible verse about God’s plan for our good purpose, if we would just let God have a little more control, and be willing to have a little less, maybe things would turn out just fine, imagine that! We are always rushing around so much to get things done – to achieve all the things we have planned, what things do we miss out on that God had planned for us to enjoy? When do we really stop and smell the roses and not keep saying we plan to? To actively listen to the wind rustling through the air, feeling it move over us. To plainly see the beauty of nature all around us. When I came out of church this morning, enjoying the taste of my coffee (thank you Robert), I got in my car and looked straight ahead and to my delight observed a myriad of butterflies, fluttering around on the simple bushes ahead. First, I noticed the big orange one, yes, she was first to capture my attention. A beauty! But deciding to take the few extra minutes to witness this array of color – a perfect picture in front of me, my senses all aroused – my heart swelled with emotion and I knew that this was a gift from God to start me on my way; – a new journey, a blog space to share the wonder and awe of the pure simplicity and peacefulness that abounds in nature. Oh, what joy, what privilege! Thank you Kate! And to finish my first account with another irony: I park in the same spot every week and never noticed the butterflies before. Hmmm. :-D

“South of Broad”

From the moment I read my first Pat Conroy book I was hooked. They all are semi-autobiographical page turners. From “The Water is Wide”, “The Geat Santini”, “Prince of Tides, to “Beach Music” I identified, reveled and enjoyed. Now “South of Broad” comes along with the most evil human imaginable and the most wonderful human you wished you could emulate. Now you are warned about the evil, you will still enjoy the goodness and the Southern references, and be reminded of the struggles of integration and the horrors of  the AIDS epidemic.

Testing testing, 1 2 3

I figured I’d better post something on here, since I’m now a blog admin (not quite sure how that happened) and I made everyone else do it at our blog meeting the other day.  I just have a few, marginally related things to say:

  • For those of you who haven’t seen it, Father Marty’s videolog is awesome.  That guy is funny.
  • Speaking of awesome, kudos to my mom and all the tech-savvy people at St. George’s who got the website and blog up and running.  I had a conversation with one of my friends the other day on the way to the church that went something like this:

“What are you up to?”
“Not much – just heading to my mom’s work to help with her new blog.”
[pause]
“Your
mom has a blog?”

 

 

  • I had a great time at the W5 this Wednesday!  If you guys ever decide you want to have it in Miami Beach one week, I can host :)
  • Finally, I thought everyone would appreciate this cartoon:

Small Children
That’s about it.  Looking forward to reading everyone’s updates!